What Men Want In A Woman: Sex On The Brain, Sort Of

What men want in a woman is sex on the brain. I mean let’s face it. We’re all born to reproduce. Sex is a natural part of that process. Of course, if sex was all we cared about, we would be shagging every moving thing in sight. As humans, we have evolved into beings that combine this primal impulse with the complexity of a well developed set of emotions. As much as you would like to think that all men care about is the woman’s body in sex that only counts for about 10%. Women who know the other 90% have men that crave them and them only. Want to know what that other 90% is?

1. 50% Trust

Trust is something that we all need in this world to survive. If we didn’t trust anyone, we wouldn’t even be having sex in the first place. You have to have some trust in the other person to successfully procreate.

Trust isn’t the only factor, though. The other most important thing are the emotions that come with making love with someone you trust. Trust breeds intimacy and that’s what keeps couples together. The last thing you would want is to be with someone and feel like you’re 1000 miles apart.

2. 20% Openness

This is something that also have evolved from the human psyche. We are all insecure. Every one of us. No matter how much we pretend that we are completely, 100% comfortable in our own skins, there is something that keeps us rooted to reality.

And that’s actually normal. I think it’s impossible to be 100% completely secure with yourself. That insecurity gives the balance in people that render them imperfect. Sex is the perfect opportunity to show your flaws and if you’re both open about it, that is something else that husbands love in their wives.

3. 20% Intensity

There are not many animals besides humans who have sex for pleasure. Dolphins do it and so do pigs. Anyway, if it was all about simply getting from A to Z in the fastest possible time, everyone would be having sex less.

Sex is all about reaching an emotional peak as much as it is about reaching a physical one. I know that sound corny but it’s true. Men love women who focus on the emotions of the act.

What men want in a woman is someone who believes that men don’t simply focus on the physicality of sex. We want so much more out of it, regardless of if we know it or not.

The Christian Woman, Sex, and Christian Marriage: Be My Personal Freak and I’ll Be Yours!

I’m sure you’ve heard the term that men want their wives to be good girls in public, but a freak in the bedroom. Well, I believe that’s true.

Just because you’re a Christian does not mean that you have to open your legs, have sex the same way, in the same position, and in the same room all the time. It is not a sin to explore your husband in different ways when it comes to sex in marriage.

Sex is a great way to communicate with your husband, and since marriage is the only relationship that God ordained for sexual relations you should give your husband everything!

Now, both you and your husband need to communicate and determine what works best for you and him when it comes to sex.

I would recommend staying away from porn because it can wreck your marriage and it brings other people into the bedroom although they are not physically there.

On the other hand, I would also discourage giving your husband “Pity sex.” This occurs when you choose to have sex with your husband out of obligation, and with no emotion or passion.

I know about this too well. In the earlier years of our marriage, I would give my husband “pity sex.”

I knew the Bible said I couldn’t withhold sex from him, but I didn’t know how important it was for me to open my heart to him during sex.

Sex in marriage is not just about getting an orgasm. It’s about sharing your heart, your body, and your whole self with the man you love AND then getting the orgasm!

I recognize that as women we struggle with a lot of thoughts that can hinder us from passionately making love.

These things include:
• Fatigue
• Kids
• Past emotional ties with other men
• Abuse
• Hurt within the marriage
• Problems with friends, family, work, and/or money

I think you should prayerfully deal with these issues and discuss them with your husband at the appropriate time. And while many of these items are important, they should be put aside during lovemaking for you to experience a world of love, passion, and ecstasy with your husband on a consistent basis.

It’s not easy and this is why we must do our part to get our minds right and focused on our husbands.

Below you’ll find some things that have helped me over the years:

• Throughout the day, imagine making love to your husband.
• Play love music throughout the day as you think about your husband.
• Refuse to look at or connect with old boyfriends on social media that day or at all if you know you’re vulnerable in that area.
• An hour before you make love with your husband, refuse to discuss “heavy topics” such as money, kids, family, work, or any areas where the two of you have strong opinions. Doing this will put both of you at ease and allow you to let go of your defenses.
• Give love taps throughout the day. This could include: kisses, pats/touches in intimate areas, hugs, etc. I’d say whatever works for you and him, and just do it.
• Text him sexy messages during the day.
• Look good (for yourself) and to him every day.
• Wear something sexy!

While all men are different, in most cases most men aren’t complicated. And they love sex!

While men don’t often communicate as often as we do, sex is a great way to communicate with your husband. And if you can learn to view sex as an opportunity to connect with your husband on a more intimate, deeper level it could change your perspective and open the door to more communication in your marriage.

Sex – Here Are 7 Things Every Woman Wants From Her Man IN THE BEDROOM But Would Never Tell Him

Women love great sex and they have great sex with great lovers. But how do GREAT LOVERS give women so much sexual pleasure?

The answer to that question is right HERE…

1. Sexual Dominance

Virtually every emotionally healthy woman is SEXUALLY SUBMISSIVE.

Therefore, virtually every woman wants her man to be SEXUALLY DOMINANT in the bedroom. A great way to show your woman your sexual dominance is to instigate the sex and generally take control and lead her in the bedroom.

2. Creativity And Imagination

Every woman wants her man to be creative and imaginative in the bedroom. The reason why she wants this is so that the sex is always interesting and exciting.

The way you can make sure that you always give your woman INTERESTING, EXCITING SEX is to make it different every-time.

3. Knowledge Of Her Body And Sexual Techniques

Every woman wants her man to understand her body and know some great SEXUAL TECHNIQUES so that he can really give her incredible pleasure.

Two great techniques you can use to blow your woman’s mind in the bedroom are ‘The Welcome Method’ and ‘The Deep Spot Method’.

4. An Understanding Of Sexual Signals

Every woman is different and wants her man to be aware of this.

The way you respect this fact and use it to give your woman THE BEST SEX EVER is to tune in to her ‘sexual signals’. Sexual signals are what I use as a term to describe all the feedback she gives you in the bedroom.

This feedback can be verbal and physical. Learn to get ‘in tune’ with your woman’s feedback and you will be a better lover virtually instantly.

5. Dirty Talk

For woman — sex is very MENTAL.

Dirty talk enhances every physical action that you do to your woman in the bedroom. Women need DIRTY TALK in order to have incredible sex. Period.

6. More Than “One Gear”

Some men only have “one gear”. They do it in the missionary position for 5 minutes and they are done.

The truth is that women like a man with several gears.

Sometimes they want a 3 minute quickie somewhere where they might get caught.

Other times they want to do it really hard and deep for 20 minutes.

And other times they want to make-love more slowly and tenderly and they want it to last an hour.

You need all these ‘gears’ to totally SATISFY your woman.

7. Orgasms

This is the BIG one. Women want orgasms

Sex With An Older Woman – Mature Women Have Such Nasty Thoughts

If you’re ever lucky enough to be banging an older woman, you’ll know that it really is a fantastic way to enjoy sex with a mature, confident and willing sex partner. There’s very little a horny, seductive, highly sexed older woman won’t do. She’ll use her erotic and seductive wiles to tempt you into some titillating sex play… even some that may be taboo!

The Best Sex Education

You’ll have the time of your life and also benefit from getting a deep and dirty ‘hands on’ education in sexual and intimate relationships. There is simply nothing that compares to a practical, physical experience. Remember; an ounce of action (or experience) is worth a tonne of theory.

You’ll learn more in an afternoon of banging an older woman than you ever will by studying any Sex Education manual. In life, nothing is better than ‘just doing it'; nothing is as good as actually learning on the job.

Older Women Love Perverted Fantasies

Mature women who are with a younger man for sex will usually have very few inhibitions or hang ups about sex and carnal desires. Older women are bursting with kinky fantasies and perverted thoughts about sex and intimate physical contact between people. Better still, a mature woman lover will be more than willing to act out these fantasies for real. Be prepared to participate in some pretty kinky and risqué sexual action.

Be a willing partner for her unusual sexual desires. Don’t refuse to participate in making her fantasies a reality… unless it is dangerous to you or other people. If it’s harmless, with consent, doesn’t involve actual violence and doesn’t jeopardise anyone else… go for it! Enjoy and learn!

Say ‘Yes’ More Than You Say ‘No’

Morals? Hmmmm… you have a choice. Yep, you could be on your own, in your own room, watching porn and masturbating furiously… or you can actually get in between the welcoming legs of a real, horny and willing older woman and enter her warmth. Life is all about choices. Friends, wouldn’t you prefer a hot and sexy mature woman’s soft fingers around your todger rather than your own cold and calloused hand? (Todger: British word = penis)

An older woman sex partner will be much more experienced than you and so will have certain things she likes and enjoys. She will be confident in her mental make up for sexual gratification. She’ll be much more open to engaging in provocative, peculiar and even bizarre sex fantasies. Where I’ve been and where you’re going, you’re gonna need a strong stomach and a wild and freaky mind! Friends, we’re *not* talking about a fancy-dress fire fighters uniform or dressing up as a nurse or mild spanking!

Older Women Have Such Dirty Minds

More likely you will find yourself in sweaty, messy threesomes or group sex sessions with couples and single studs. Many older women have desires of being penetrated by a group of young black guys. Though it sounds politically incorrect these days, it is a fact that a lot of women fantasise about being a submissive sex slave and love to act out a subservient role where she is a passive sex toy to be played with or ‘used’ by others, usually lots of men. (Disclaimer: I asked 6 older women and they all said so.)

This sex obedience fantasy role-play may also involve her being urinated on (golden showers / water sports), tied up on a bed and penetrated against her will (role play, of course), or having three men penetrate her at the same time in her vagina, her anus and her mouth. More common is to be roasted by two guys, while she is on all fours on a bed with one guy entering her from behind while the other penetrates her mouth from the front.

In a world of political correctness gone mad, and populated by a generation of sensitive snowflakes, I’m actually wary and cautious of writing more openly of what I know!

Mature Women Are SOOO Nasty!

Many of the older women you’ll come across will be moms who have had one or more children. Some women discover that childbirth has loosened her vagina in such a way that she now wants larger objects to insert. Welcome to the world of fisting! Don’t be taken by surprise if the older babe you’re with, one day, asks you to put your whole fist inside her vagina. What will probably not surprise you is how easily most women can accommodate a man’s fist inside her vagina. Just follow her instructions, use ample lubrication and ensure you don’t hurt her.

Jump In, It’s Great!

Sex with an older woman will be a thrilling part of your life with new and exciting variations of sex and erotic encounters. Very rarely will it be a simple missionary position sex session, although, from time to time, that will be exactly what both partners want.

Be a willing participant; take an active part in life! Be open-minded and do as you’re told; it’s rude to refuse a woman. Don’t hesitate, don’t be indecisive. Be bold, be adventurous… and have fun.

How to Keep Your Woman – Sex Tricks

There are 2 distinct ways to keep your woman in a relationship. Most relationships fail out of boredom and becoming too stale. This leads to infidelity, where the woman begins seeing other men for variety and change. Here’s how to completely solve that problem:

1. Learn how to last longer in the sack. Lasting longer is such an enormous, incredible, relationship builder and maintainer. This really cannot be understated. It gives the woman no reason to leave a relationship out of sexual frustrations or lack of being sexually satisfied. It gives you a certain crown that you are constantly wearing. The one surefire way to please your lady is learning how to last longer consistently, and not suffer from things like premature ejaculation.

2. Learn every sexual and erotic trick and technique in the book. Lasting longer is the first step, and stepping up your sex game through erotic tips and techniques is the second step. Again, by being a lover who adds an enormous amount of variety to your sex life, then this gives no reason for the woman to even consider being with anyone else.

Being so pleased sexually will naturally make her not even pay attention or be attracted to other men. You close the window from having that happen by learning sex skills and techniques which add variety to your sex life. Otherwise, lacking in such areas, the window becomes open and the woman naturally can begin looking and becoming attracted to others.

Women who are happy sexually are happy women! And these two methods are surefire ways to keep your woman happy and your relationship tight.

Christian Woman Sex Tips

There are specific tips Christian women can use to greatly enhance their sex life with their partner. Here’s how to have a great Christian sex life:

1. Get Him Excited.

One negative aspect of intimacy that Christian women face is not being able to get their partners excited about sex. This can be due to a variety of reasons ranging from nervousness, inexperience, fear of not pleasing you, premature climax issues, and issues related to Christianity and what is accepted and what is not.

By trying to make intimacy fun, playful and easygoing, you begin to create a stress free, relaxing environment. Research a good Christian sex manual and find guaranteed ways which will please him and make him excited about future intimacy time together. Once you create a relaxing and fun environment, you can then begin to:

2. Help Him with Intimacy.

As mentioned above often times there are issues that should be dealt with right away, rather than suppressed and never faced. Unfortunately the male is usually the last to bring up any intimacy problems, so it’s left to the woman to not only bring it up, but help him along with solutions!

Well, the good thing is there are many solutions available to just about any intimacy problem, and the Christian woman can successfully and creatively, implement such solutions and actually create the kind of wonderfully pleasing lover that she desires!

Simply address the problem, find the solution, and guide him along in helping him with implementing that solution, stressing how much more enjoyable intimacy will be for both you and him.

3. Learn Christian Sex Techniques.

There is so much to learn in the way of Christian intimacy that one should definitely research the different techniques that can add variety and passion to any Christian relationship. These will range from allowable positions, to Christian safe sex toys, to simple and effective ways to celebrate sexual intimacy on a regular basis. A good Christian sex manual can provide all the above, and can successfully create a wonderful and exciting sex life for years to come!

How To Improve Your Woman’s Sex Drive, Quickly And Easily

You are about to discover how to quickly and easily improve your woman’s sex drive.

You must read this article if one or more of the following apply to you:

– Your woman rarely wants sex.

– Your woman’s sex drive has steadily declined over a period of time (be it weeks, months or years).

– You are single, BUT you have experienced relationships in the past where your girlfriend, fiancée or wife at the time either never wanted sex or rarely wanted to have sex with you.

– You have to ask or beg your woman for sex.

Oftentimes, when a woman’s sex drive decreases the following excuses are used by herself, her man, her friends and perhaps even her doctor:

– Age. The thinking here is that as a woman gets older her sex drive has to decrease

– Relationship status. The idea here is that when a woman has been with a certain man for a period of time (be it 6 months, 2 years or 10 years), her sex drive will naturally decrease

Let me tell you that the above two excuses that people use all the time are completely lame!

Now let me tell you why I say that…

The real secret as to why a woman’s sex drive decreases is because the sex she is getting from her man is not good enough.

You may think this is harsh and unfair but if you want to improve your woman’s sex drive, you must read on.

You see, most men give their woman really bad sex. Let me give you a few statistics that highlight this point:

– 30% of women have never had a orgasm – not a single one

– 70% of women have never had a vaginal orgasm

Now consider the fact that vaginal orgasms are way more powerful, intense and pleasurable for a woman than clitoral orgasms (the kind that most women rely on) and you can see that most men are not really giving their woman anything like the kind of sexual satisfaction in the bedroom that she wants, needs and craves.

Now add to all that the fact that women also have the potential to experience squirting orgasms, anal orgasms and even orgasms with no touching whatsoever (YES, really) and you will see that the majority of men are ‘really not doing it for their woman’ in the bedroom.

Now here’s the thing – I’m going to give you 3 things that you must start doing right away and when you do them, you will rapidly increase your woman’s sex drive.

Trust me when I say this – 99% of men don’t do what I’m about to share with you. So make sure you do these things and you will make your woman want more sex than ever before.

Here we go…

3 Ways To Improve Your Woman’s Sex Drive

1. Lead Your Woman In The Bedroom

As far as sex goes – your woman wants you to take control. So be a man and lead her through each and every sexual adventure you share with her.

Do not ever ask for sex.

Instead, be a real man and instigate it.

2. Talk Dirty

For a woman – sex is a very mental thing.

Therefore, you must stimulate her mind. In the bedroom, you do this by using your voice and TALKING DIRTY.

This is the most powerful technique a man can use in the bedroom. Be believable and speak clearly, deeply and with authority.

You will be amazed at how much your woman loves this.

3. Do Something Different Every Time You Have Sex With Your Woman

Many women get bored of the sex.

And one major reason why they get bored is because their man makes it boring by doing the same things over and over again.

The solution is simple (yet most men fail to see it). The solution and a great way to improve your woman’s sex drive, is to make the sex different every time.

Start using these three ideas tonight and you will be amazed at how much more sex your woman wants to have with you.

You’ll also be amazed at how much more pleasure you give her and how many orgasms she starts to have.